Whatever role you have in a relationship- that’s the role you’ll keep for the rest of that relationship.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣
⁣⁣⁣If your gift is organising stuff, then that will be your role. Stop complaining that no one does what you do. ⁣⁣⁣⁣
If you’re the present giver, the empathiser, the funny one, the one who forgives first, pays first, opens up first, the listener or the initiator- stop pulling back in the hope that someone else will take up the role. ⁣⁣⁣
They won’t. It’s YOUR gift to that relationship. ⁣⁣⁣⁣
Relationships will always seem unfair to the gifted. Your giving has made it that way. Quit the self pity. ⁣⁣⁣⁣
Love the life you lead and love the role you’ve forged because of the gift you carry. There’s no one like you.